{"id":158,"date":"2018-09-13T22:20:35","date_gmt":"2018-09-13T20:20:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bozetice.cz\/ms\/?page_id=158"},"modified":"2018-09-13T22:25:49","modified_gmt":"2018-09-13T20:25:49","slug":"jak-ulehcit-vstup-do-materske-skolky","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/bozetice.cz\/ms\/index.php\/pro-rodice\/jak-ulehcit-vstup-do-materske-skolky\/","title":{"rendered":"Jak uleh\u010dit vstup do mate\u0159sk\u00e9 \u0161kolky"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 class=\"wnd-align-justify\"><strong>Jak m\u016f\u017eeme na\u0161emu d\u00edt\u011bti uleh\u010dit n\u00e1stup do Mate\u0159sk\u00e9 \u0161koly?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><b>Mluvte s d\u00edt\u011btem<\/b>\u00a0o tom, co se ve \u0161kolce d\u011bl\u00e1 a jak\u00e9 to tam je. M\u016f\u017eete si k tomu vz\u00edt obr\u00e1zkovou kn\u00ed\u017eku nebo si popov\u00eddejte s d\u00edt\u011btem, kter\u00e9 do \u0161kolky chod\u00ed r\u00e1do. Vyhn\u011bte se negativn\u00edm popis\u016fm, nap\u0159.: &#8222;Tam t\u011b nau\u010d\u00ed poslouchat.&#8220;, &#8222;Tam se s tebou nikdo dohadovat nebude.&#8220; apod.<\/p>\n<p>Zvykejte d\u00edt\u011b na\u00a0<b>odlou\u010den\u00ed.<\/b>\u00a0P\u0159i odchodu nap\u0159. za kulturou, s partnerem na ve\u010de\u0159i nebo do pr\u00e1ce, \u00a0l\u00e1skypln\u011b a s jistotou va\u0161emu d\u00edt\u011bti \u0159ekn\u011bte, \u017ee odch\u00e1z\u00edte, ale ujist\u011bte ho, \u017ee se v\u017edy vr\u00e1t\u00edte. D\u00edt\u011b pot\u0159ebuje pocit, \u017ee se na v\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee spolehnout. Chybou je, vypl\u00ed\u017eit se tajn\u011b z domu a d\u00edt\u011bti nesd\u011blit d\u016fvod a nutnost va\u0161eho odchodu D\u00edt\u011b se c\u00edt\u00ed zrazen\u00e9 a strach z odlou\u010den\u00ed se jen prohlubuje.<\/p>\n<p>Ve\u010fte d\u00edt\u011b k\u00a0<b>samostatnosti<\/b>, zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b k hygien\u011b, obl\u00e9k\u00e1n\u00ed a j\u00eddle. Nebude za\u017e\u00edvat \u0161patn\u00e9 pocity spojen\u00e9 s t\u00edm, \u017ee bude jedin\u00e9, kter\u00e9 si neum\u00ed obl\u00e9knout kalhoty nebo doj\u00edt na z\u00e1chod. Pan\u00ed u\u010ditelky se sebeobsluhou \u00a0v\u017edy d\u011btem r\u00e1dy pomohou, ale m\u00edt sebed\u016fv\u011bru v to, \u017ee to um\u00edm s\u00e1m je pro d\u00edt\u011b velice dobr\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Dejte d\u00edt\u011bti najevo, \u017ee\u00a0<b>rozum\u00edte jeho p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00fdm obav\u00e1m<\/b>\u00a0z n\u00e1stupu do \u0161kolky, ale ujist\u011bte ho, \u017ee mu v\u011b\u0159\u00edte a \u017ee to ur\u010dit\u011b zvl\u00e1dne. Zv\u00fd\u0161\u00edte tak sebed\u016fv\u011bru d\u00edt\u011bte. Pokud m\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b chodit do \u0161kolky r\u00e1do, mus\u00ed k n\u00ed m\u00edt kladn\u00fd vztah. Z toho d\u016fvodu nikdy \u0161kolkou d\u00edt\u011bti nevyhro\u017eujte (d\u00edt\u011b nem\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt r\u00e1do n\u011bco, co mu p\u0159edkl\u00e1d\u00e1te jako trest) &#8211; vyhn\u011bte se v\u00fdhr\u016f\u017ek\u00e1m typu: &#8222;Kdy\u017e bude\u0161 zlobit, nech\u00e1m t\u011b ve \u0161kolce i odpoledne&#8220;.<\/p>\n<p>Pokud bude\u00a0<b>d\u00edt\u011b plakat,<\/b>\u00a0bu\u010fte p\u0159\u00edv\u011btiv\u00ed, ale\u00a0<b>rozhodn\u00ed<\/b>. nenechte se d\u00edt\u011btem vyd\u00edrat. Rozlou\u010den\u00ed by se nem\u011blo p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 protahovat. Neodch\u00e1zejte ani narychlo nebo tajn\u011b, ani ve vzteku po h\u00e1dce s d\u00edt\u011btem. Domluvte si doma postup, kter\u00fd budete pravideln\u011b p\u0159i p\u0159\u00edchodu do \u0161kolky d\u011blat. A\u0165 si d\u00edt\u011b v klidu \u0159ekne jak bude rann\u00ed odlou\u010den\u00ed p\u0159i p\u0159ed\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed do \u0161kolky prob\u00edhat a pokud je re\u00e1ln\u00e9, tak ho pravideln\u011b dodr\u017eujte. Pravideln\u00e9 ritu\u00e1ly jsou pro \u00edt\u011b velice d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Dejte d\u00edt\u011bti s sebou n\u011bco\u00a0<b>d\u016fv\u011brn\u00e9ho<\/b>\u00a0nap\u0159. obl\u00edbenou hra\u010dku, ply\u0161\u00e1ka, fotografii apod.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pl\u0148te sv\u00e9 sliby<\/b>\u00a0&#8211; kdy\u017e \u0159ekn\u011bte, \u017ee p\u0159ijdete po ob\u011bd\u011b, m\u011bli byste po ob\u011bd\u011b p\u0159ij\u00edt.<\/p>\n<p>Ud\u011blejte si jasno v tom, jak\u00a0<b>pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te nast\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed situaci vy.<\/b>\u00a0D\u011bti dok\u00e1\u017eou velmi citliv\u011b poznat projevy strachu u rodi\u010d\u016f. Plat\u00ed tu, \u017ee zbavit se sv\u00e9 \u00fazkosti znamen\u00e1 zbavit d\u00edt\u011bte jeho \u00fazkosti. Pokud m\u00e1te strach z odlou\u010den\u00ed od d\u00edt\u011bte a nejste skute\u010dn\u011b p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010deni o tom, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b do \u0161kolky d\u00e1t chcete, pak byste m\u011bli p\u0159ehodnotit n\u00e1stup d\u00edt\u011bte do \u0161kolky. P\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b se dohodn\u011bte, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b do \u0161kolky bude vodit ten, kter\u00fd s t\u00edm m\u00e1 men\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9my.<\/p>\n<p><b>Za pobyt ve \u0161kolce neslibujte d\u00edt\u011bti odm\u011bny p\u0159edem.<\/b>\u00a0D\u00edt\u011b pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 stres nejen z toho, \u017ee je ve \u0161kolce bez rodi\u010d\u016f a zvyk\u00e1 si na nov\u00e9 prost\u0159ed\u00ed. P\u0159id\u00e1 se strach z toho, \u017ee sel\u017ee a odm\u011bnu pak nedostane. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b &#8211; pokud den ve \u0161kolce prob\u011bhne v pohod\u011b &#8211; chvalte d\u00edt\u011b a jd\u011bte to oslavit t\u0159eba do cukr\u00e1rny nebo kupte n\u011bjakou drobnost. Materi\u00e1ln\u00ed odm\u011bny by se ale nem\u011bly st\u00e1t pravidlem, d\u00edt\u011b by pak hra\u010dku vy\u017eadovalo ka\u017ed\u00fd den.<\/p>\n<p>Promluvte si s u\u010ditelkou o mo\u017enostech\u00a0<b>postupn\u00e9 adaptace d\u00edt\u011bte.<\/b>\u00a0V na\u0161\u00ed \u0161kolce je p\u0159\u00edtomnost rodi\u010de v prvn\u00edch dnech doch\u00e1zky velice v\u00edtan\u00e1 a osv\u011bd\u010den\u00e1. Rodi\u010de na za\u010d\u00e1tku chod\u00ed s d\u00edt\u011btem do \u0161kolky a \u010das str\u00e1ven\u00fd v kolektivu se postupn\u011b prodlu\u017euje.Postupn\u011b rodi\u010de na del\u0161\u00ed \u010das odch\u00e1zej\u00ed a d\u00edt\u011b v\u00ed,\u017ee v\u017edy po ur\u010dit\u00e9 dob\u011b p\u0159ijdou a vezmou si ho dom\u016f (v\u017edy ale sd\u011blit d\u016fvod odchodu &#8211; nap\u0159. va\u0159en\u00ed ob\u011bdu, pe\u010den\u00ed kol\u00e1\u010de, n\u00e1kup, cesta na \u00fa\u0159ad atd.).<\/p>\n<p>Tak se u v\u011bt\u0161iny d\u011bt\u00ed obejde adaptace bez slzi\u010dek v\u0161ech &#8211; d\u011bt\u00ed i maminek.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jak m\u016f\u017eeme na\u0161emu d\u00edt\u011bti uleh\u010dit n\u00e1stup do Mate\u0159sk\u00e9 \u0161koly? Mluvte s d\u00edt\u011btem\u00a0o tom, co se ve \u0161kolce d\u011bl\u00e1 a jak\u00e9 to tam je. M\u016f\u017eete si k tomu vz\u00edt obr\u00e1zkovou kn\u00ed\u017eku nebo si popov\u00eddejte s d\u00edt\u011btem, kter\u00e9 do \u0161kolky chod\u00ed r\u00e1do. Vyhn\u011bte se negativn\u00edm popis\u016fm, nap\u0159.: &#8222;Tam t\u011b nau\u010d\u00ed poslouchat.&#8220;, &#8222;Tam se s tebou nikdo dohadovat &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/bozetice.cz\/ms\/index.php\/pro-rodice\/jak-ulehcit-vstup-do-materske-skolky\/\" class=\"more-link\">Pokra\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed textu <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Jak uleh\u010dit vstup do mate\u0159sk\u00e9 \u0161kolky<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":133,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-158","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bozetice.cz\/ms\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/158","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bozetice.cz\/ms\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bozetice.cz\/ms\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bozetice.cz\/ms\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bozetice.cz\/ms\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=158"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/bozetice.cz\/ms\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/158\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":168,"href":"http:\/\/bozetice.cz\/ms\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/158\/revisions\/168"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bozetice.cz\/ms\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/133"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bozetice.cz\/ms\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=158"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}